im sorry i always have to ask for prayers for the same things... but... i love skyler. most of you probably mostly know my story. Im not really allowed to date him, but for the last 2 months i have been anyways.. against my parents wishes mostly. because. im not sure their being very reasonable. see im a mennonite, therefore i cant date at all.. you juust get married. and skylers not a mennoite, so much more confusion. but anyways.... i broke up with him today, and im not sure he understand. i told him we can only be friends. and hes taking it very vey very hard. he comes to church, but i talked to his mom on facebook.. and she accepts it...

anyways just pray for him especially cause hes taking it hard.

and that.. i can figure out my life...

thanks..

and.. i still want to marry him:D and him me...

You know I'm praying for you girl.

yupp... sorry i ask.. but i just feel so bad for him

No need to apologise Krista, we're here to support you!

I'll be praying for you guys

Well, You already know i'm praying for you, and what I think you should do so. I love you!

Awww, I'm so sorry, Kris. And don't apologise, because we would rather know about it so that we can pray! I think you did a very mature thing there, which must have taken a lot of strength to do. If God does want you two to be together, then he'll lead you both into the right situation so that you are able to date without upsetting your parents and going against what you believe.

k... thanks so much. well hes had a lot of talks with my parents, so tomorrow im going to his house to tlk to his mom. shes very smart, but shes not a Christian i doint beleive, and like skyler blames my parents, he ssays im 18 now, so i can make my own desicions and they shouldnt tell me who i can see and not see, and control my life. But yet i know my parents have some good advice. so im being pulled in different directions and its just pulling me apart... nevermind i dont even know what church i want ot go to, and my parents think it would be a very BAD idea to not be a mennonite, so thats eating at me to, and ive been thinking about that for a long time, and no answer, so i dont know, and skyler doesnt take no for an answer... and we still love each other, but yet, i know he treats me so well, but he hasnt grown up in a Christian home, spo is there any grounds to not marry him, because hes grown up with divorce, yet he says his parent have ruined his life from that and would never leave me, doesnt everyone say that? and he thinks its wrong..


...lol thiose make me feel better:) big smileys

I'm praying too. I know it is hard when everyone is telling you what to do, and only you can make that decision. Just remember to draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Only God has the right answer. Maybe it goes along with what your parents are saying and maybe not. At some point everyone has to have their own faith, their own relationship with God, aside from their parents' faith. It's like thinking about everything you've ever been taught and comparing it to what God says in the Bible. It's hard, but as long as you keep following God He'll lead you into His great plans for you.

I'm praying as well.

ya no, that didnt sound bad at all.. im just tired of my life being a huge mess and i wiosh i could just make a decision of what to do, but i cant cause i dont knowwww *bursts into tears almost*

life sucks. honestly i wish i could curl up under a rock and wake up in 4 years.

Aww! *hugs*

I would say just take it easy for a bit, don't think about guys and take some time to get back and God and your parents. Once you've calmed down inside, you'll be able to think more clearly. While your emotions are all jazzed and confused, it's hard to decide what to do.

I think, Kris, that you want to figure out whether or not you want to be Mennonite before you can figure out what you need to do about Skyler...and we still need to talk...one of these days!!